We all want success and happiness. And I strongly believe that they are achievable when you have the right mindset.
Our mindset and your belief system have an impact on your life—from how and what you think to how you feel and reach to the things that happen around you.
That said, if you want to achieve a more positive life, you need to switch your entire outlook by training your mind to see things in a new light.
How?
Accept That You Need To Adjust The Way You Think
One of the reasons it’s difficult to change your mindset is because you’re used to the same thought patterns. You follow a specific thought pattern that you think is already set in stone. However, you have the power over your mind and how it works.
The first step to change your mindset is to accept that your mind needs adjusting and YOU CAN. When you come to terms with this, you will find it easier to adjust your mindset in a way that will let you live a more positive life.
Identify Your Negative Thought Patterns
Not all thought patterns are negative, there are positive ones you can keep when you want to change your mindset. Before you do this, you need to identify the negative ones first, so you don’t fall into that trap when you start a new mindset.
You have to remember that the mindsets are formed due to prior experience and emotional milestones. In order to identify these negative thought patterns better, think about the mindsets you had when you weren’t able to produce the results you want. That said, you’re going to have to dig as deep as you can to identify them.
As you go along, pay attention to your thoughts. Notice when you hear a negative though pop up and recognize how often it happens. It’s likely you’ll find your limiting thoughts have their themes. Recognizing them is a huge step because that’s when you start with the change.
Move From Negative To Positive
When you’re in the process of changing your mindset, it’s not a one-day miracle. It’s going to be a work in progress. As you acknowledge your negative thoughts and develop positive ones, you will still notice some random bad thoughts to pop up. This is only natural!
What you can do is to, again, be mindful of your thoughts. When you notice you’re spiraling into a pool of negativity, that’s when you recognize them. And when you recognize them, you can counter them easily with a positive one.
So, when you are thinking negative thoughts, be mindful of them and counter them with positive ones. Do this every time that happens and you’ll be able to form a healthy habit.
Get To Know Your Why
As mentioned, changing your mindset will take a lot of work because you are going to need to break old habits. That’s why it’s essential to understand your why. You need to understand why you want something to change in your life.
For example, you want to lose weight. Why? Is it because you want to live a healthier life? Or do you want to look better in your clothes? Know and understand why you want to do something and take it from there.
Since changing your mindset will take a lot of work, understanding the why will make it even more meaningful. You can write it down on paper or in a notebook why it matters to you.
Be With The Right People
Your mindset is affected by a lot of factors and one of them is the people you hang out with. If you noticed that you have been more negative than ever, you might want to observe the people you surround yourself with.
This is not about putting blame on someone, because at the end of the day, it’s still your choice to be with them. However, if you notice that you are more negative when you’re with them, then it’s best to reconsider the relationship.
If you want to lead a more positive life, you need to be with the people who have a positive mindset, too, especially if you will be with them a lot of times.
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Thank you sir this is so true I’ve lent a lot because we always feed our minds with negative thoughts we end up being stressed up you teach me so I’ll have to change my mindset dwell on the positive side although negaves will also not disappear in my mind.
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