We all have dreams. 

Desires for an abundant life beyond our current circumstances. 

But too often, we deny our dreams or doubt our ability to achieve them. 

Why? 

Because we seek validation from others instead of finding it within.

Here’s how I’d like to illustrate further…

Imagine you’re holding a seed.

A seed representing your deepest dreams and desires. 

You have TWO choices

You can either plant this seed in the soil of others’ opinions… where it’s subject to their doubts, fears, and limitations.

Or, you can nurture it in the fertile ground of your own belief and conviction. 

The difference in where you plant this seed can determine whether it flourishes or withers away.

The truth is, 

No one else can tell you what you’re capable of. 

Only you decide the limits of your potential. 

So, if you feel bound by other’s expectations, it’s time to break free. 

Stop waiting for approval and take ownership of your life.

The secret to happiness and abundance is as simple as owning your life.

It’s about shifting the narrative from blame to empowerment… from regret to action.

Understand that you have the power to create your reality.

Any limits you face are simply because you haven’t fully embraced the belief that you can have whatever you want.

It’s essential to recognize that most of these limits come from other people and societal expectations.

Whether it’s well-meaning parents or friends who feel threatened by your dreams, we often internalize their limits and beliefs.

I’ve witnessed it happen so many times. 

People get excited about making changes, only to be discouraged by the opinions of others.

But here’s the truth…

Your life is in your own hands. 

You don’t need validation or approval from others.

You have the power to break free from old patterns and attract abundance.


So, what’s the most important thing you can do?

Cultivate faith in yourself. 

Stop seeking validation and realize that your life is yours to create.

Don’t let the opinions of others hold you back. 

It’s time to step into your true power and make your dreams a reality.

Pause for a moment and reflect on these questions:

  1. What limiting beliefs are holding me back from achieving my desires?
  1. Why do I doubt my ability to attain what I want?
  1. In what areas of my life am I seeking others’ approval before acting on my dreams?
  1. Do I fear change, and if so, why?
  1. How can I implement change gradually and effectively in my life?

If you have a desire or a dream that others might not fully understand…

… or perhaps you know they will immediately start to talk about the limitations they see or impose their beliefs upon your dream…

My advice is…

Keep it to yourself.

Seriously, imagine it like a tiny baby you don’t want to expose to the outside world just yet. 

Your dreams and desires are YOURS, and they are VALID. 

You do not need anyone else to validate or approve of them. 

Keep them secret until you can share them with people you are sure will be supportive and compassionate. 

In the meantime,

Empower yourself to believe you can make them a reality.

Cultivate faith in your instinct, sense of self, and innate power. 

Become incredibly discerning about your thoughts and behaviors regarding the things you desire.

Check-in with these points: 

Are you taking action toward your dreams? 

Is your energy in alignment with what you want?

Are you living as if your dream is something that exists only in some magical land where you cannot reach it? 

OR are you able to easily step into the energy of that dream as reality NOW? 

Your life is yours alone to create HOWEVER you choose. 

You have complete control and power over your own experience with every single decision you make daily. 

Decide to tell a new story and to live your best life. 

You are a limitless being in a boundless universe. 

Own your own truth and step into your power today! 

The world awaits the unique contributions only you can offer.